There are outdoor parties—and then there are outdoor parties. The kind that people casually bring up months later, saying things like “That playlist? Still thinking about it” or “Whatever candle you had burning... I need it.”
The difference? Intention.
At Thomas Blonde, we believe hosting is a full-sensory experience. From how your patio smells to the way your spritz clinks in the glass, everything contributes to the vibe. So if you’re planning to host this summer, let’s make it the event of the season—without the burnout.
Here’s your no-fuss guide to creating an outdoor party people won’t stop talking about.
Step 1: Set the Scene (Before Anyone Arrives)
Send the Invite with Intention
Whether you go digital or old-school chic, include date, time, location, and any details like “BYO lawn chair” or “we’re going potluck style.” Bonus points if you set the tone with a cheeky RSVP.
Design Your Menu Like a Vibe Curator
Choose crowd-pleasers, but with a twist. Think grilled peaches with burrata, marinated veggies, or a DIY skewer station. Don’t forget to consider dietary restrictions—and prep what you can the night before.
Pre-Game the Prep
Marinate the meat. Chop the veggies. Set out the serveware. Trust: your future self will thank you when you’re sipping something chilled instead of stress-sautéing in front of your guests.
Get the Grill Ready to Go
Clean it, fuel it, and double check your tools. Nothing says buzzkill like running out of propane mid-burger.
Layer Your Lounge Zones
Think chairs, pillows, picnic blankets—anything that says please stay awhile. Don't forget shaded areas with umbrellas or trees, especially if you're partying mid-day.
Cue the Insect Control
Because nothing ruins the vibe like mosquitos in your sangria. Our Travel Buddy Tin Candles come in a citronella scent—perfect for keeping bugs at bay without compromising your aesthetic. Light them with our Clearly Blonde Matches for that little extra luxury touch.
Create a Self-Serve Drink Station
Line a bar cart or beverage tub with everything from sparkling water to iced cocktails. Add citrus slices, sprigs of mint, and a few signature cups to keep it stylish and convenient.
Step 2: The Day Of—Keep It Cool, Clean, and Chic
Food Safety = Party Safety
Keep raw and cooked items separate. Use a meat thermometer. And when in doubt? Toss it out. We’re not trying to throw the BBQ and a stomach bug.
Hydration Is Haute
Make sure your guests have access to plenty of water and light drinks. Add infused water with cucumbers or berries for that spa-day-meets-backyard-party feel.
Keep It Breezy
Shade, handheld fans, misting sprays—if temps soar, you’ll be everyone’s favorite host for thinking ahead.
Don’t Skip the Scenting
We’re scent people, so of course we’re going to say this—but truly: the right fragrance makes the moment. Light a few of your favorite candles (Blonde, Sweet Yucca, or Joshua Tree are warm-weather icons), tuck a Room Refresh Spray near the bathroom, and let your diffuser run inside so your home smells just as good as your garden.
Add Low-Effort Fun
Think: a curated playlist (our Blonde at Eight is always a crowd pleaser), a few lawn games, and a casual photo corner for the memory-makers.
Clean As You Go—Quietly
Have trash bins or bags nearby, but don’t make a thing of it. Let people toss their own plates and subtly stay ahead of the mess.
Above All? Enjoy Yourself.
You did the prep. You lit the candles. You even remembered the vegan burger option. Let go. Pour a drink. And be the glowing, unbothered, scent-curating host you were born to be.
And that’s how you host a summer gathering that lingers long after the last guest leaves. Warm light, good food, better company—and of course, a space that smells like you planned it all with love.